He obviously doesn't mind dating a stocky, chain-smoking agnostic with children on benefits. Using pictures to draw attention to you In her first week, surfyogi continued to swim through the spam in search of her winning sperm. This is one space where pictures speak a thousand words, most of which go unsaid.She quickly learned that there is more science to cracking this system than people think. Smart profiles use the photo opportunity to show they have fun-loving friends (so not a loser); that they love the great outdoors (cue man carrying a heavy stand-up paddle board into water) and anything that allows you to pick up a heavy item or show your gym biceps is also a winner.If one picture can do all three and show your sensitive side, you are either all of these things or a psych major.In hindsight, surfyogi might have thrown in a few more "sensitive" photos, pictures of her playing games with cute children or engaging with animals and nature, all firm favourites on the online dating circuit.
Of course, creating the persona and making a checklist of the ideal man was the fun part.
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