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The questions were surface-level (like, do you prefer romantic comedies or horror movies?) and it was impossible to get a sense of what these men were about.As I finished creating my profile, doubts flooded my mind. While scrolling through the site a few days later, a man, John,* messaged me out of the blue.No one would ever seek out a 50-year-old sugar baby … John was a 34-year-old business executive from my town.After some brief small-talk (you know, the typical what-are-your-hobbies-what-are-you-looking-for chitchat), we set up a coffee date.



I learned that he had two children and was separated, largely because he and his wife weren't intimate enough. He was looking for someone who was sexy, confident and stable, which he wasn't finding by dating younger women. After my past experience with the 29-year-old, I was worried that he might not be on my maturity level. Of course, there’s no one-size-fits-all, but their number one criteron make sense to us: an emphasis in profile questions on mutual interests and honest self-representation over looks and sexual prowess. Bowling Green State University professors of gerontology, Dr. The study authors also delved into the question of which features make a dating site a good fit for seniors.Perhaps it was my Roman Catholic background that shaped my views on relationships and love, but I used to think the sugar-daddy-sugar baby dynamic was silly and taboo.