9) If you were to walk into a crowded bar where everyone was busy talking, went and sat in a corner and meekly said Hi nobody would notice you the same applies here don't just say Hello all.... Hi Miss Bonnie ( hint, I dislike being called Mistress Bonnie unless I own you) 10) Being worthy. Perhaps you should do whatever it takes to make yourself worthy!:) 11) Some people seem to think that being a sub male means being a "Wimp" but I can tell you from first hand experience (Oz is no wimp)..but there aren't that a lot of quality submissive males ,if you are a quality sub... Don't do the cyber kneeling, serving coffee, rubbing feet and other silly crap In the main room (leave it for the dungeon), we don't go for that. its nothing to be ashamed of its unfortunate that many forget they were new once, and look down upon newbie's. Please remember when you are experienced that you were new once.Take the time to demonstrate how intelligent and witty you are. The regulars in Collar Ncuffs will take the time to answer sincere questions. No question is too stupid or silly 8) Some subs here really stand out in Collar Ncuffs.Think about whether you would like this person if you had to actually be WITH them.Also, don't submit, even in cyber unless you actually mean it. A lot of cyber relationships are just as important as real life to the people involved and they take them just as seriously.DON'T ask questions like, "What do you do with your sub? If you notice a sub who has the respect of the Dommes, sure envy him, but also watch him and learn from him!
Real Dommes expect you to NOT follow orders from anyone you have not agreed to submit to. but there are a lot more submissive males then Dommes online..
Don't lead subs on to submit to you if you are just sub collecting for the heck of it, or if you have no intention of actually taking care of this person's well being.